Top 10 Dysfunctional Families of the Bible

It’s nearly impossible to find a functional family in the Bible. So here are my top 10 dysfunctional families.

  1. FIRST FAM: Mom (Eve) tricked Dad (Adam) into disobeying God. Then things got really bad as one their boys (Cain) killed the other one (Abel). Then Cain ran away to avoid prosecution. His was the first picture on a milk carton. Get the whole dysfunctional families of the Bible story here.
  2. NOAH’S FAM: Noah saved family from the flood and then got naked and plastered. Evidently, sailing around on a flooded earth in a barge full of animals was a bit stressful. He didn’t appreciate the fact that one of his boys (Ham) mocked him for his naked drunk condition. So Noah cursed his son. There is no record that Ham attended Thanksgiving dinner with the family that year.
  3. ABRAHAM’S FAM: God promises a child to an elderly couple (Abram and Sarah). Abram is not ready to wait on Sarah to get pregnant so he has sex with his maid, Hagar. (With the name “Hagar” she must have been a real cutie.) Hagar gets pregnant, has a son (Ishmael) and then makes fun of Sarah for not being able to get pregnant. Hagar and Ishmael leave because they are not longer welcome in this happy family. Get the whole dysfunctional families of the Bible story here.
  4. ISAAC’S FAM: Jacob (one of Isaac’s twin boys) swindled Esau (the other twin) out of his birthright by lying to dad with the help of his mother Rebecca. Esau—understandably–then wanted to kill his brother, Jacob. So Jacob ran away to live with his crazy Uncle Laban, who tricked him into marrying his less-than-gorgeous daughter, Leah. Then as a good will gesture, Laban threw in his hot daughter, Rachael, to smooth things over.
  5. JACOB’S FAM: Jacob had 12 boys and decided to buy the youngest one, Joseph, a trendy coat. That didn’t set well with the other brothers. So instead of leaving him out of family football they decided to throw him into a hole and kill him. The older brother, Reuben, was more reasonable and talked them into merely selling him as a slave to a band of Egyptian thugs. They told dad an animal killed him. dysfunctional families of the bible
  6. KING SAUL: Israel’s first king was jealous at the popularity of a shepherd boy (David) became obsessed with killing him. Saul’s son Jonathon became estranged from his dad and helped David avoid his father. That was not a display of family unity.
  7. KING DAVID’S FAM: King David had a fling with his next-door neighbor, got her pregnant and killed her husband to cover it up. The baby died. Then one of his sons (Absalom) betrayed him.
  8. SOLOMON’S FAM: The “wisest” guy in the world had a palace full of wives. (nuff said)
  9. JESUS’S FAM: Jesus parents (Mary and Joseph) left their son (Jesus) behind on a road trip to Jerusalem. They somehow missed the fact that the Son of God was no longer with them on the way home. At least they turned around and went back for him. They found him in the temple and made him get back in the wagon. Mary and Joseph did more head counts from that day on.
  10. PAUL’S FAM: Actually, Paul the Apostle never got married or had a family. That’s right. The original church planter and primary author of the New Testament opted out of the whole fam thing. Maybe he read an article similar to this one around 40 AD.

Fam Blitz Live is all about what God has done for our families! There are no perfect families and we can all rely on God to do what we can’t do on our own. We can’t pay the price for our own sins, so God sent Jesus. Find out more about why we welcome dysfunctional families to Fam Blitz Live events.

Roger Fields